It's funny how things never really turn out the way we thought they would. Selalunya, reality is different from our expectations. Semakin menginjak dewasa, semakin sakit kita rasa bila apa yang kita harapkan jadi sebaliknya. Kenapa? Because we  usually overshoot them. We expect more than we're likely to get.

Tak semua harapan, impian dan angan-angan yang kita impikan akan tercapai. Maybe one of your hopes could dies in front of your eyes.

Jika impian yang musnah itu adalah impian ingin hidup bersama dengan seseorang, your world will be turned upside down. Seeing the person you love fall in love with someone else.. can you imagine how it feel? I know because it almost killed me :(

I've been in love with him. He was the one I always believed I'd end up with. I was convinced that no matter how many times things screwed up, we'd eventually come back to each other. Mungkin itu silapnya. Terlalu percaya dan terlalu berharap. Berharap yang keadaan akan kembali seperti biasa, hubungan akan pulih semula. So after we broke up, that's my hard time. Berbulan-bulan lamanya tak habis fikir, kenapa begitu mudah hubungan ni berakhir, Frankly said, setiap hari aku masih menantikan dia. Kalau kalau dia jenguk aku balik.

I tried loving others, but it never worked out. I guess that's why it was so hurt to see him in love with another girl. I believed he would love me for the rest of his life, as I will love him for the rest of mine.

I was at a loss for words. When you see the person you love fall in love with someone else, it breaks you.

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Can we still love each other when we're ninety?

Soalan. Gitewww ~

Sebenarnya, everything depends on our conception of love, Sekuat dan seutuh mana definisi cinta pada pandangan kita. Bagi aku, to love is to be happy in making the other happy. Kebahagiaan aku adalah bila melihat orang yang aku sayang turut bahagia.  If you do everything for the happiness of the other, there is no reason why this relationship shouldn't last.

That's the first point.

Second is, frankness. We must be able to say everything, Silence is never a solution. Kalau rasa tak suka dia lepak mamak hari-hari, cakap. Kalau rasa tak suka dia pakai seluar senteng, cakap.. Jangan diam, jangan pendam, nanti parah.

Zahirkan rasa cinta selalu, kalau pun tidak berterus terang pada pasangan hari-hari (takut pasangan jemu atau kata kita buang tabiat) pastikan sebut nama dia dalam doa.. Moga Tuhan jaga cinta kalian even when you're ninety 💕

Labels: 2017, goodbyelove