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Friday, September 29, 2017

Why the person who broke you can't be the one who fixes you?

There's nothing in life that will make you stronger or screw you up more than heartbreak. Once we experience such a heartbreak, we are never again the same. Kita akan berubah. We begin to look at love and life through a different shade of glass. Ada yang sampai dah mula tak percayakan cinta.

Bayangkan kita berharap dia lah orangnya,that you would spend your lives together.. tapi tiba-tiba kena terima kenyataan yang semua berakhir. The future you have been looking forward for so long has just been taken away from you, it's going to hurt. A lot.

Sad to say, the pain not goes away quickly. Mungkin sebulan, atau setahun? It takes time to heal, to recover from sadness. And maybe you need someone to fix it. Siapa?

Satu, someone new. Kalau jatuh cinta dengan orang baru, maybe, the pain from the old goes away. At least dalam sesuatu tempoh masa. Lambat laun luka tu akan pergi. Maybe. Who knows..

Dua, the person who broke you. Tapi pernah dengar "the person who broke you will almost never be the person who'll fix you"? Things always have a reason for not working out. Sekali hubungan tu pernah gagal, perbaiki pon probability untuk gagal tu ada lagi.. Sebab it's already broken. Dah ada gap, crack semua lahh.. You break someone's heart, means you lose their trust as well.

Sometimes you have to accept that he/she will never again feel safe in your arms.. so let him/her go. Yes.. it's not always easy to move on.. Kadang rasa macam impossible pon ada. Tapi percayalah, you will find someone else to love when the time is right.. Sehingga tiba waktu tu, work on fixing yourself !


SINGLE OHSEMMM, MAYBE ?.
 
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