I'm a 'yes people'. I don't know how to say no, it's hard for me. Bila cakap tidak means kita menolak sesuatu, and I'm so worried that I might hurts them, so I end up committing to too many things or saying yes to things yang I taknak buat pon sebenarnya. That's because I'm too uncomfortable to turning or letting someone down padahal I should prioritizing my own needs and just SAY NO ! Tapi entahlahh.. I selalu mengiyakan banyak perkara yang kadang I sendiri rasa tak setuju.

Now I'm realized, it's not realistic to say yes to everything. I patut lebih tegas dengan decision sendiri. But it's not like I maksudkan yang it's a bad thing nak tolong orang or bring others joy, but it shouldn't be our driving force. Jangan sampai rasa terpaksa buat semua tu.. Sometimes, it's okay to say no.

Labels: 2017, goodbyelove