I'm a 'yes people'. I don't know how to say no, it's hard for me. Bila cakap tidak means kita menolak sesuatu, and I'm so worried that I might hurts them, so I end up committing to too many things or saying yes to things yang I taknak buat pon sebenarnya. That's because I'm too uncomfortable to turning or letting someone down padahal I should prioritizing my own needs and just SAY NO ! Tapi entahlahh.. I selalu mengiyakan banyak perkara yang kadang I sendiri rasa tak setuju.
Now I'm realized, it's not realistic to say yes to everything. I patut lebih tegas dengan decision sendiri. But it's not like I maksudkan yang it's a bad thing nak tolong orang or bring others joy, but it shouldn't be our driving force. Jangan sampai rasa terpaksa buat semua tu.. Sometimes, it's okay to say no.
We think we can explain love between two people by such a link or give specific reason..
"I love him because he is good looking"
"He has a good heart"
"We fit together"
The truth is, there is something about love that is a mistery. We cannot really explain nor predict it. Tiada satu alasan atau sebab yang kukuh kenapa kita begitu mencintainya.. Bila orang tanya "kenapa pilih dia?" It so hard to explain you know.. The heart has its reason which we cannot understand.
So why him? Why her? The only real explanation is..... because its him... because its her...
♥ Syifa. ♥ Twenty this 28th September. ♥ Lepasan STPM. Bakal sambung degree. ♥ In a relationship with Ogy. ♥ A blogger from Pahang. ♥ Not a singer but I love to sing ! ♥ Friendly, talkative and sensitive too